Bubbles one more day this week, Mokie needs relined. Sunny day promised, hope it comes true.

I have spent the week mostly with my Bubbles, she has been patient and played on the floor a good deal of the time.  I have had several other kids each day.  I have used my time out corner, my time out chair, my "making good choices" speech, hugged the the booboos, said "what a big boy, so proud of you using the potty", used my Nannie voice, and have had the excitement of the grands and the pseudo grands love for me.  I have them all again next week same time same place.  Bubbles just arrived this morning, nice smiley face.  Cubbie will be here when her dad drops her off, as will be Boy.  Cubbie is struggling with her mom working this week,  Boy and I have come to an understanding.  So the day with kids awaits.

Sold my first pairs of Longies on the Internet this week, hope they are well recieved and liked.  I had an order of shorties or diaper cover to make yesterday, finished them just have to lanolize them.  I think that on Etsy, the diaper covers are really going to become one of cornerstone of my sales.  I am hoping that with the new molds and shrink wrap I can get my soaps to sell eventually but I have to find the time to take photos, and rework my listings.

Mokie is going for her reline of her teeth today.  I hope all goes well with that.  I learned yesterday day that all of the people that think my lovely daughter is meek and mild are sadly mistaken.  I have had to listen to people say for years, she is so easy going nothing like you.  I always suspected that they were wrong and she was her mothers daughter and then some. Well, I am here to tell you I am the one in the right.  She defined her momma with an intensity that her mom only gets to when defending her cubs and hubbie, and then she let the person have it on a level her mom never gets too.  I do belief I did a good thing and actually taught the girl empowerment when it is called for and needed.  The person she was defending me against thought she needed a reline in more ways than one.  Not so sure but told them I would see what I could do.

I would like to put forth a question.  I was told I was a slandering some one yesterday by saying that they called someone a lair.  I don't think I really was but did say I was sorry.  I thought it was the same think but a different perspective.  I was told "no it is not the same thing and I was wrong."  Here is the question.  I was told something had been checked out and that the something was found to be unfounded.  So I said so that means that person who said it is a lair and you are saying they lied.  Right?  This is when the person said I was slandering them,  I still think that when some says something happened, and asks for help, if a person that wasn't there determines it was unfounded it is that the same as saying the person asking for help is lying?  Apparently not..... hummmm   Unfounded does not mean the victim is a liar.  So, what does it mean?   Stumped, confused, still abused and not understanding where the help is, why asked for help in the first place.  I did take steps towards understand how to help my kids and am told I "have" to make a scene.  I am not a person who likes scenes but as I was able to teach Mokie how to make them guess I can step up and make one myself, just will be ashamed of having to ask my friends, and those around me, to understand that is the only way I will get help per the person who has to help..... tomorrow.