Thursday, September 6, 2012

Hypothetically speaking.....

Pedophiles Can Be Anyone:

Pedophiles can be anyone -- old or young, rich or poor, educated or uneducated, non-professional or professional, and of any race. However, pedophiles often demonstrate similar characteristics, but these are merely indicators and it should not be assumed that individuals with these characteristics are pedophiles. But knowledge of these characteristics coupled with questionable behavior can be used as an alert that someone may be a pedophile.
 
The pedophile often seeks out shy, handicapped, and withdrawn children, or those who come from troubled homes or under privileged homes. He then showers them with attention, gifts, taunting them with trips to desirable places like amusement parks, zoo's, concerts, the beach and other such places.
 
By , About.com Guide (above excerpts taken from an article on pedophile behaviors)
 
Hypothetically speaking ........
 
I wonder why it would be okay for a 40ish year old woman to get away with things that no man of any age would be allowed to do, but because she, this hypothetical woman, and is a woman it is allowed.  Why do we live in a society where woman can and do stalk tween girls?  Why is it that an older woman, that dresses provocatively in clothes that a young twenty something that wanted to look trashy would wear, can stalk young girls? I do mean stalking, stalking is a pattern of behavior that occurs when you court your preferred age of victim.  Stalking becomes courting and eventually leads to children being victims of pedophiles.  If you report a man for the same behavior he gets a visited from the local law enforcement, report a woman and you get "Well, I don't think that is how she means it"  "you are misunderstanding her actions",  Or maybe just maybe the twenty something slut clothes caught his eye and he will work it out privately with her.  No consequences.... 
 
I wonder if a woman who spent time with two different sets of girls, a year apart, who uses the same techniques on both is stalking? She picks girls that don't get to do the things, on a normal bases, that the woman thinks they should partake in so there is an opening to seek them out. She provides trips to the river (where she drinks while driving) and trips to a destination water park a ways away from the girls home. She showers them with attention.  The woman is sneaky, and pretends well, to be a nice up standing church going person that loves and cares about children so as not to alarm the parents but once you get to know her she is a woman of questionable behaviors, Alcohol in excess daily, clothes that would make a street walker think twice and has a mean nasty nature that no ones sees until you cross her.  The public only sees what she wants to show them a really practiced slick woman.  Supposed during the trip of fun the little girls, in both incidents, are taught to walk sexy, tie their clothes up so the they are more provocative and sexy, how to wiggle their little bums so as to attract attention and most importantly "let's not tell mom or dad, they don't need to know our little secret."  I know a man can't do that to little girls, but why then can a woman?  Why is it okay to do it on more than one occasion?  Why is it okay to say to the second set of little girls, "I want to kill my neighbors dogs and hide their bodies in my basement", is that a threat of violience to the little girls? It is probably most assuredly to the neighbors.  Why is it that if you report it you are a trouble maker and crazy?  Why? oh why can defending little girls be your problem; and not the woman stalking and courting the children? "She is just doing something nice for these little girls", really?  Odd that men aren't allowed to do this kind of nice things to little girls, and rightly so, but a woman is good to go on this behavior.  I hope that no child pays a price, hypothetically speaking, for this behavior and I do hope that someday some one in law enforcements see that this hypothetical woman is as guilty of the same crime as a hypothetical man when they commit the same act.  Statistically woman are 10 to 20 percent of the pedophiles out there, sad that law enforcement hasn't actually studied up on this statistic a little more.  I am glad that hypothetically no child got hurt and I hypothetically would love to see it not end up that way next time an older woman wants to stalk the next two little girls of her choice......
 
I speak in the hypothetical but she is out there, don't ever think she isn't, and some day some little girl will pay a big price for the inability of the ones who were warned to do the right think and look into these kind of situations.  That is why pedophiles are a growing population in our society and more children are victimized every year.  That is why as high as 20 percent of the time children are the victims of woman, no one believes until it is way way to late that a woman would do that.  I wish, and not hypothetically speaking, that those who are supposed to listen would actually do their jobs and listen and help a little girl escape this horrible atrocity to come, because it sadly will.... tomorrow.  

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